If you want to find out someone’s true intentions, be friends with them. Do not complicate anything with sex. I see so many times and I have experienced these, that when you add sex, things get all screwed up. Be friends with someone. Do things with them that are of the same interest. If your heart flutters, he isn’t the one. I am starting to believe that the one for me will make me feel calm. He will help calm me in times of need, be logical when I am not, we will laugh together, and I will be able to be my true self. I won’t have to hide my feelings, opinions, or anything. This will not be known unless you are friends first. What I think I mean by that, is friends for a good while, not just 3 weeks for example. As I hear others talk about their relationships, I am more convinced than ever. You know what I absolutely hate? Guys that over compliment to get into your pants. Seriously men, stop that! It takes more of a genuine effort to be friends with someone. If you are not interested in the true me, then you are not going to be getting a one night stand or someone to f+%&k. No way! Women, if you want to know if a guy likes you and is interested in you, don’t give your body freely. If they leave when you don’t give it up, then they were always going to leave. Men, respect women! If you need to just use them, remember, they are someone’s daughter, sister, ,mother, friend. Be respectful and just walk away before you hurt them deeply.
Respect one another.