I heard this song called “I miss me more” by Kelsea Ballerini, I couldn’t agree more! As human beings, we sacrifice for love and for family. What I have discovered listening to many women is that we sacrifice ourselves. I have experienced this over and over. Why do we do this to ourselves? To be loved? To be accepted? I am telling you that in the end, selling yourself short isn’t worth it. There are so many people in this world who are fake, who are users, who will take advantage of you, and when they are done, they are gone. I may sound like a complete cynic, but the more I listen, the more I realize. Here is the million dollar question, “who should we trust?” What does trusting do when we discover that someone is using us? There are so many lonely people in this world. The problem is that we just don’t know what to trust. Like I said, the million dollar question is who do we trust? So many predators out in this world make it hard to trust. I pray everyday that I don’t lose my positive attitude. I am not saying I don’t feel sad because I do. I of course feel lonely, it is a natural feeling in transition. The lonely feeling shouldn’t dictate how we make decisions. I know many people, including me, have fallen to the pitfalls of feeling lonely or scared. What I have learned is that the world doesn’t end. Yes, we get temporary loneliness and yes that sucks. Getting past this feeling is fucking hard!. You will second guess yourself!!!! I have friends who have brothers and sisters on dating sites. You will run into fake people. I will forever be a servant to those who need me and throw my own needs and wants to the wayside.