Need more hours in the day????

GET UP EARLY! When you allocate your waking time in a productive way, you will feel better. I was guilty the last few days of going back to bed when the kids went to school. It was a huge time waster. I felt groggy, lazy, and as if I didn’t have the time for anything. I woke up without an alarm clock at 5am today and decided to just get up. I made coffee, cleaned, enjoyed the sunrise, and now I am full of positive energy. It felt good to be the only one up and have time to myself. No one was asking me for anything and that felt sooooooo gooooood.


You realize….

Many events happen in our lives that are milestones. I know that I try to cherish every moment that comes along because the moment will pass and never come again. Yesterday at work I was almost hit by a truck while on foot. I was trying to stay out of the way but the driver was going too fast because he got mad over something. I happened to be walking in the door and was 1 foot away from being sideswiped. It’s super weird how the brain works when we are in danger. I started to see things in a slower motion because my brain sped up with adrenaline. All I could see was my foot getting crushed by this super heavy truck. After that moment passed I was glad I was not injured. The unimportant trivial problems seem to fade away when major events happen. This is an eye opener for me. Thank you God for keeping me safe and opening my eyes again. We go through this life once. Make it a good one!


True intentions.

If you want to find out someone’s true intentions, be friends with them. Do not complicate anything with sex. I see so many times and I have experienced these, that when you add sex, things get all screwed up. Be friends with someone. Do things with them that are of the same interest. If your heart flutters, he isn’t the one. I am starting to believe that the one for me will make me feel calm. He will help calm me in times of need, be logical when I am not, we will laugh together, and I will be able to be my true self. I won’t have to hide my feelings, opinions, or anything. This will not be known unless you are friends first. What I think I mean by that, is friends for a good while, not just 3 weeks for example. As I hear others talk about their relationships, I am more convinced than ever. You know what I absolutely hate? Guys that over compliment to get into your pants. Seriously men, stop that! It takes more of a genuine effort to be friends with someone. If you are not interested in the true me, then you are not going to be getting a one night stand or someone to f+%&k. No way! Women, if you want to know if a guy likes you and is interested in you, don’t give your body freely. If they leave when you don’t give it up, then they were always going to leave. Men, respect women! If you need to just use them, remember, they are someone’s daughter, sister, ,mother, friend. Be respectful and just walk away before you hurt them deeply.

Respect one another.

I totally get it…

I completely understand why people become work-aholics. Short answer, it’s safer. Relationships are hard, people use one another, and it’s messy. Keeping it simple and working will save the feelings of rejection, complication, whatever you are feeling, but may give you feelings of emptiness. You may feel like you are missing something but that something is painful and you are shielding yourself from pain to exchange it for another. What is the answer? I don’t fucking know. Which way are you going to give yourself or slice yourself up in a manner of speaking. Maybe I will just go hold babies at the hospital. That is an easy answer huh? They snuggle, don’t use you, and you feel useful. At least if you get fucked over at work, it didn’t involve your personal intimate feelings.
Have a great night.