What motivates you?

Many of us need to really be “moved” to be motivated to change the direction of our lives. For some of us, that could be a devastating event and for others, they are just naturally curious. What gets you going? For me, it is the internal drive to improve myself. If I am unsure how to do something or I am unaware of how to do something, I usually research it and try it. Sometimes, I realize I don’t like whatever task I am doing, but I learned something in the process. If we go day in and day out, eating relatively the same food, falling into a similar pattern for the day, and never really looking to learn something new, then we get bored. I used to think I got bored of the job I was doing and then needed to find a new one. I have since realized, it is not the job, it was my life. I needed to grow my soul and cultivate my skills.  I like to shake things up and throw myself a curve ball. Doing that keeps my brain and my body motivated to do more. I know I need more of nature and becoming one with nature. I used to be so distracted by social media and not paying as much attention to who is real in my life. I am happy things have recently become even more clear. I have to say, life in your 40’s is divine.  What gets you motivated?


Just show up!

My youngest was trying out for the professional nutcracker production. This is her second year of ballet and she really wants to do ballet because she says it is her life. So, we both had no idea what auditions would be like. We showed up, gave the application, and waited. There were so many people there and parents that had no clue what to expect either. She tried out, and then we waited for almost a week. Guess what? She got the part! If she decided not to go because she was nervous, then she would never have been able to experience an audition or have a chance to be in the production. Showing up to things when we are nervous is difficult, but just do it. You never know what awaits you!