What motivates you?

Many of us need to really be “moved” to be motivated to change the direction of our lives. For some of us, that could be a devastating event and for others, they are just naturally curious. What gets you going? For me, it is the internal drive to improve myself. If I am unsure how to do something or I am unaware of how to do something, I usually research it and try it. Sometimes, I realize I don’t like whatever task I am doing, but I learned something in the process. If we go day in and day out, eating relatively the same food, falling into a similar pattern for the day, and never really looking to learn something new, then we get bored. I used to think I got bored of the job I was doing and then needed to find a new one. I have since realized, it is not the job, it was my life. I needed to grow my soul and cultivate my skills.  I like to shake things up and throw myself a curve ball. Doing that keeps my brain and my body motivated to do more. I know I need more of nature and becoming one with nature. I used to be so distracted by social media and not paying as much attention to who is real in my life. I am happy things have recently become even more clear. I have to say, life in your 40’s is divine.  What gets you motivated?

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Laundry, dishes, kids oh my!

Do you ever find yourself so tied up with things to do, that you just don’t know the order in which to do things anymore? That is where I am at. I decided to listen to my mother and stop procrastinating about important things, do the little things that need to be done that have a time frame, and the other things if they are not really important, don’t worry about it. This week is a busy week for me and all I can think about is what am I going to make for dinner. That is the age old question that daunts mothers every single day. With my life in a whirlwind, I decided to ditch my phone and pick up a book. I didn’t grab a self-help book, I grabbed a juicy mysterious novel that I am having a hard time putting down. Oh how I miss reading! I used to read just for the fun of it. I am going to make this one of my priorities. It is so satisfying to dive into a good book. For one, it builds your vocabulary and I also feel it helps you to critically think better. So, pick up a good book and dive on in.

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