True intentions.

If you want to find out someone’s true intentions, be friends with them. Do not complicate anything with sex. I see so many times and I have experienced these, that when you add sex, things get all screwed up. Be friends with someone. Do things with them that are of the same interest. If your heart flutters, he isn’t the one. I am starting to believe that the one for me will make me feel calm. He will help calm me in times of need, be logical when I am not, we will laugh together, and I will be able to be my true self. I won’t have to hide my feelings, opinions, or anything. This will not be known unless you are friends first. What I think I mean by that, is friends for a good while, not just 3 weeks for example. As I hear others talk about their relationships, I am more convinced than ever. You know what I absolutely hate? Guys that over compliment to get into your pants. Seriously men, stop that! It takes more of a genuine effort to be friends with someone. If you are not interested in the true me, then you are not going to be getting a one night stand or someone to f+%&k. No way! Women, if you want to know if a guy likes you and is interested in you, don’t give your body freely. If they leave when you don’t give it up, then they were always going to leave. Men, respect women! If you need to just use them, remember, they are someone’s daughter, sister, ,mother, friend. Be respectful and just walk away before you hurt them deeply.

Respect one another.


So, I am going to write about something that is not a positive. I am just not understanding why people are the way they are. Why do men and women use each other? Who can you trust? I was just told about a guy at my work that was bragging to other men that are co-workers that he “banged” a 19 year old and sent the pictures to his ex that recently broke up with him. Seriously???? If this guy ever told me that, he would be barking up the wrong tree! I have 3 daughters and one is 19 this year. Do guys think they look more appealing sounding like an asshole? If these kinds of guys are what most of the world is made up of, I will remain single because I do not want to get involved with someone like that. Could you imagine dating someone you think is being honest and he just wants to bang you then move on to the next woman? I heard about this last night and woke up in a fighting mood. I am really protective of my children. If my boys ever treated a girl/woman this way, they would not want to be in my path. However, I hope that I have instilled the values and morals in them their whole lives that I would hope and pray that what I have tried to teach them sticks. I am constantly telling them to be nice to girls and treat them with the utmost respect. As long as I am living in this world, I will always tell my kids this. They will be 40 and I will still remind them. I wanted to always raise my kids with morals and the values this world seems to be lacking. We are supposed to respect others, not use them until they have nothing left, because you took it all, and then leave.